But sometimes it’s very difficult – almost impossible – to believe it. It certainly doesn’t feel like a beginning when something ends.
But otherwise how can something begin if something else doesn’t end to give the beginning a chance to begin?
You might want to read that sentence again.
We all have something we’re struggling with; something we know we need to give up, but we still keep hanging on. Why? There are lots of reasons, but here are the main ones:
We think things will improve.
We don’t want to hurt anyone.
We don’t like change.
We’re afraid of the unknown.
They’re all valid fears. But…change is a necessary part of life. Change is required to grow.
But change isn’t fun. Neither is uncertainty. And that’s the really scary part. We feel backed into a corner, with no means of escape. No way to make our life better.
No place to run and hide. No place to go to where our life will be settled again. No one to go and hide with, or to make the problems easier because there’s no one there to help us. Something in our life has ended, and we just can’t go on any longer.
It’s just us…against the world. Us beginning to fight our way out of the hole we think we’re in. Us trying to claw our way out of a dark and lonely place we think won’t get better no matter what we do. We just can’t see how we’re going to get out of this place we find ourselves in. The ending has happened and there’s no way we can turn it around.
Or is there?
Remember, endings are also beginnings.